inspired-for-lifee

Anonymous asked:

I am 14 just starting high school on Tuesdays, and I am so so so not ready to start my life. There are so many things I'm confused about. My summer has been kinda stress free and I'm traumatized that I'll start getting "bad" again. (If you get the term) to make is short and simple I need advice on two things. First, I'm I'm questioning my sexuality, and I'm just so confused about that and I don't know what I'm feeling. And second is how do I survive freshmen year???

inspired-for-lifee answered:

I know that the teenage years can be very difficult. First of all, you don’t need labels. It’s okay to question yourself and find out what makes you happy. In the end, it’s who you fall in love with. Forget about labels and what other people would think, can you see yourself happy in a great relationship with another girl? Don’t be afraid to try new things and follow your heart. As for freshman year, same thing. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and try new things, get involved in clubs and sports and make new friends. I promise it’s not as scary as like the movies or books haha

I can honestly say freshman year is nothing at all like the movies. I’m going into sophomore year. I was so nervous for 9th grade, but I actually had a great time. There will be up and downs for sure the thing to remember is that italways gets better, and like I saw above don’t label anything. If you like girls, cool. If you like guys, cool. If you don’t know, cool. It doesn’t Matter. It’s your life don’t worry about why others think. Freshman year goes by so fast, enjoy it